Nicole Smith

When Life Feels Too Heavy: Why Overwhelm Isn’t Failure — It’s a Loss of Form

She sat at the kitchen table staring at her to-do list, heart racing. The list was reasonable. The day was full, but not impossible. And yet, she felt completely overwhelmed. She was doing everything — showing up for work, caring for her family, trying to exercise, eating “pretty healthy,” keeping the house running — and […]

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The Ultimate 2026 Perimenopause Health Reset: Start the New Year Feeling Clear, Strong, and in Control

Every January, women tell me the same thing: “I want to feel better… but I don’t even know where to start.” Some are coming off a stressful holiday season. Some feel bloated or exhausted. Some have gained weight despite “doing everything right.” Others feel anxious, foggy, or out of rhythm with their bodies. If you’re

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Consistency Over Perfection: Why Losing Your Routine Doesn’t Mean Losing Your Progress

When Life Falls Apart (And What That Teaches Us) This past December, my family lived through something no one plans for. My parents’ garage caught fire.The garage was a total loss.Three beloved cats were lost in the fire.My parents were displaced, and their entire home now requires remediation. At the same time, Washington State experienced

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Mindset, Metabolism, and Midlife Weight Gain: Why Doing More Is Often the Problem

A Story I Hear Every Week She sits across from me and says some version of the same thing I hear almost daily: “I don’t understand what’s happening to my body. I’m eating less, working out more, and my belly fat is worse than ever.” She’s not lazy.She’s not undisciplined.And she’s definitely not doing “nothing.”

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Goal-Setting for the New Year: Creating a Sustainable Health & Fitness Plan

Why Midlife Women Need a Different Approach As we head into a new year, many women start thinking about goals: getting healthier, feeling stronger, losing weight, sleeping better, or simply feeling more like themselves again. But for women in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s, the traditional “New Year’s Resolution” model often backfires. If you’ve

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Grief, the Holidays, and Midlife: Making Space for Loss and Healing

For many, the holiday season is painted as a time of joy—family gatherings, twinkling lights, comforting traditions, delicious food, and warm drinks shared on cold winter nights. But for many midlife women, the holidays can also quietly magnify something far less talked about: grief. Grief doesn’t follow a calendar. It doesn’t politely pause for Christmas

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Why Winter Feels Harder in Perimenopause — And What You Can Do to Feel Better

Every year around November, I start hearing the same thing from women in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s: “I don’t feel like myself.” “I’m tired all the time.” “I can’t wake up in the morning.” “My mood drops the second the sun disappears.” Most assume it’s stress or the holidays. But for many midlife

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